***WARNING***: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects, or any other individuals or institutions - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. (Somehow I don't think offers any actual protection) Please forgive us if we don't reply on IMC. We get overwhelmed with messages. If we don't reply on IMC, then shoot us an email and we'll reply when we're not juggling conversations. :) Early 30's couple in an open relationship. Wife is free to play with whoever she likes, husband has similar freedoms, but wife is still adjusting to this new dynamic so it's still sort of tentative and will require a bit of planning for the first time that I explore sex in our new open dynamic, so that I can make sure she's aware and doesn't become uncomfortable with it when I eventually try playing with another girl. We are also interested in exploring DP for her. Husband is straight, but doesn't think he'll have any issues in that situational context. Just a heads up, neither of us have ANY interest in leaving the other. We are very much in love and are simply expanding our sex lives. On the husbands end there is zero jealousy. On the wife's end the jealousy has all but disappeared -- almost there, but a small sliver remains for the moment.

My Ideal Person For her:
Someone reasonably HWP, fairly well endowed, the taller the better. The candidate should be clean shaven (face) and trimmed downstairs. D/D free only (420 isn't a problem). Condom use required.

Update: Relationship has opened up a little more (still strong), and we're not limited to MFM. She can play alone at her own discretion, but she still would like to try an MFM (Husband doesn't necessarily need to be involved, her discretion)

Would really like video of any of her experiences, taken with *her* phone -- faces need not be included, if you're uncomfortable with it. Video can be taken for the playmate with their device as long as she has control over whether it's kept or deleted! (The same courtesy we'll extend)

Female candidates could be for the wife or the husband (maybe both?). Preferably height/weight proportional.

Intelligence is important as well.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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