I'm an attached in an open relationship looking to meet some new people for discreet fun. She heads out to do her own thing, I go out and do mine. It works for us. We're leading toward having a poly relationship, just haven't found steady people we would want to date and see regularly. Definitely open to it though. We've played on occasion together(soft swap, MFM, & MFF) but not as regular as going out solo. I'm mainly looking for a regular playmate, women or couples. I really really enjoy women older than me. Second to that would be falling into play with a couple. I've experienced entering into another couple's play a few times and really like it. I really enjoy the first meet up with a couple and just letting things happen. Sometimes it works, out...others not. No pressure ever. But when it does work out its usually pretty spectacular. Couples make the rules, I'm simply a guest. Hope to meet some new people soon. I have photos to trade and some in a private album.