I am an academic without portfolio who finds a woman's mind who most attractive body part. I am looking for someone who open honest and is willing to look beyond appearances. I've survived cancer three times which means that following my passions and getting pleasure out of every minute is critical. I should note that surviving cancer has changed me physically. I have lost my ability to swallow and speak with an impediment. It means that enjoying fine food and wine is outside of may wheelhouse but has not reduced my passion for living and finding others who share that passion.

My Ideal Person My ideal woman is an open-minded person who can look past what one sees and realizes that a relationship, including a sexual one depends on what the mind can create.

I am looking for someone where sparks fly in and outside of the bedroom. If you are looking for that too, that please contact me.

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