I am a professional man with multiple jobs and my own house. I am looking for new and exciting experiences without any drama. If a relationship springs from it, that's a plus. I am decidedly average looking, but by no means ugly. I just dropped 50 pounds, so I look a heck of a lot better than I did. What I am is a very kind per. I care for everyone in my life, especially the ones who choose to be with me. If you win my heart, you will have it for as long as you wish. I am also pretty darn smart and quick-witted. I have been told my sense of humor is very dry and subtle at times. I enjoy watching shows on Discovery, TLC, Science and History as much as I do watching The Blues Brothers movie or Blazing Saddles. My musical tastes are pretty varied and I can appreciate just about any genre. Movies - the same, but prefer action, science fiction and horror. My favorite movies are the Lord of the Rings Trilogy (yes, I am a BIG geek). If some of this interests you, talk to me, ask questions let's see if we click. I am pretty much always on Messenger when I'm logged in here.

My Ideal Person My ideal person...hmmm... How do you do this without pigeon-holing yourself and possibly turning away someone who is almost perfect in one way but thinks she may not be in others?

Physically, I have an eye for curvy women. A pretty face with mischievous eyes and a welcoming mouth is a huge plus - bonus points if you wear glasses. Hair color or length don't matter. But, the physical part is only a small part.

Mentally, I like a woman who is smart and quick-witted. She must also have a sexy mind - able to share her fantasies or talk in such a way as to turn me on in almost any situation. While vulnerability in a woman can be sexy, I prefer a strong woman with an inner confidence.

Last of all, being young at heart is very important.

This is by no means a checklist of what I am really looking for. If you stimulate my mind, you will certainly have my attention.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Red Hot Chili Peppers, Bobby Darin, Frank Sinatra, Soundgarden...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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