I am a very laid back man, kind, gentle and I am very respectful. I have been single about 5 years, I have never been married and I have no ren. I work a lot and don't have much time meeting women, I don't hang out in bars and I do not like crowds much. Being alone for so long I do miss sexual encounters with women the thing is I am a oddity in the bedroom. I love pleasuring a woman more than receiving my own pleasure. I am not into sex just for sex. I like the emotion and touching and like to be slow and methodical pleasing a woman. I have several kinks the first being that I love giving oral, I also love using toys. I have a great imagination and have some fantasies that would please a woman I think but in doing so please myself. If your wondering if I have a penis and if it works the answer to both is yes. Its not huge but it does work and yes I like to use it but I like to make sure the woman has pleasure before I ask for mine. I am a large man and yes you can call me fat, I don't mind. I know who I am and I know I am not the dream man, I also have flaws and I smoke. Smoking I can refrain from for long periods but I wouldn't mind a woman that smokes and even has a drink or many with me. Above all the sex I miss just the more tender things that a woman can provide, kissing, hugging, cuddling and even holding hands and for this I know whomever I do meet must be a friend also.

My Ideal Person I have no ideal woman, I am no lightweight so keep that in mind. I do love all types of women though and think they are beautiful especially the ones that don't think they are.
I seek a kind, warm hearted woman with a open mind and sexual appetite for being pleased possible by unusual means.
I do have a foot fetish and like pretty feet a lot. I can also do light bondage and tickling, I will spank but not hard as I do not like to cause pain nor will I ever hit a woman.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, A store dressing room, A hotel room, No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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