I am a 6'4" 230lb. Black man, I'm separated. and soon to be divorced. I'm looking for a very special woman, a mature woman, open minded, and not given to temper. I am a very passionate man, I love to show my passion. I love kissing, cuddling, touching, hugging, bubble baths, oils, massages, candles, and rose peddles. I know that there are some that don't need or like those things, but I do, and I'm looking for a woman that likes to be romanced, not just screwed. I love oral, really love it; but I get great pleasure out of giving, especially if she is very clean smelling, tasting, and shaven, it really makes the oral so much better. I love women of every ethnicity, and I love long hair, and even short hair, if styled good, love women in lingerie, especially the school girl outfit, just drives me crazy, must be due to my years in catholic school LOL. I love to go to movies, concerts, especially contemporary jazz, love the beach, parks for romantic picnics, and long coastal drives. I am an intelligent, creative, and sensual man, looking for a very discreet 1 0n 1 friendship first, and then perhaps a very passionate, romantic, sensual, and heated sexual encounter(s), surely an NSA/FWB relationship with exclusivity is something I'm looking for at this time, perhaps more in time. Again, I am interested in women of every ethnicity . I am a non judgmental person, I live my life my way, and let others do the same. I am looking for a very special woman, a friend, and confidante. In the bedroom I am a very giving person, I get great pleasure out of my lover being pleased totally, before I am, I could not enjoy myself if she doesn't get all that she desires, therefore, if its foreplay, lets do it as long as you want, if it's oral, all night long, you tell me what you want, and I'll do it. So then, in the bedroom I'm a freak, no holds barred, except pain and disrespect, I am a gentle lover, but can get very vigorous, as vigorous as she would want, love to get real sweaty, and afterward cuddle, touch, and kiss, until we go again, and again, until we're both exhausted. I am well endowed I have nine and a half inches of cut, very thick, very clean smelling, tasting, and shaven very smooth manhood that's always ready to give the greatest pleasure to that special woman. I absolutely love a woman that can get very, very wet, the wetter the better, especially the white creamy wetness, it is my weakness. I am 420 friendly, I am D/D, I am a gentleman, will open all doors for all women as well as pull out the chair at every table, just the way I was raised, I look forward to finding that special woman, I am here, Ray.

My Ideal Person hair, any normal color, loves lingerie, mini skirts, have big to small breasts, big shapely butts, shapely and toned legs, beautiful feet, French tip nails, soft skin; must love giving oral, but really must love getting oral, must be freaky, but not crazy, must love bubble baths, love to cuddle in the shower, give oral on a coastal drive, must not hesitate to show affection.

Must not be given to anger, not argumentative, or attitudinal. Must love to be held from behind and stroked, and touched, and grinded on; must be willing to entice me; the sly bend over, and show the thong or nothing but the treasure.

Must be discreet, and understand the nature of our relationship, not clingy; must love to have intelligent conversation, to laugh, and play, and tickle. I am a gentleman, will be very respectful, and expect the same, will not intrude into your life and won't allow that in return. I am not simply trying to jump into bed with the first person to contacts me, no, I have too much respect for myself and others for that, no, I would have to have chemistry and a connection first.

I have not provided a picture on here because of my social and familial responsibilities, but I am willing to provide one in private to the special ones that meet my search requirements, thank you and take care, Ray.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Candle Wax, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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